When one is in their comfort zone for too long, they tend to take things for granted. Not that they do in on purpose but it may be due to a little insensitivity, a little laziness, a little slip-off-their minds or whatsoever reasons..
when couple just g0t together, sweetness is all in the air. they cant't just leave each other for a while (or a day) and little actions depicts it all.. You tend to see newly attached couple making conscious effort to hold hands/guy carry stuff for girls/little touches (aka Publie Display Affections)/ talk on the phone or sms every other moments etc..
As few months pass. as they get to know more and more of each other's side where they have never seen before, bickles and quarrels start. guys can never understand how girls are feeling.. girls will never understand why guys always failed in see in their perpestive.
Now, if u see me and my yy goes out, i don't think we even walk togthr most of the time. We do our individual shopping like i'll go to my watsons where he goes to his game shop then wei'll meet togthr again for the common things like movie or eating. some ppl don't understand how we can do it but that's our 相处之道. You see under normal circumstances he only accompany me during his free days and he seems to have no freedom. so, when outside he gets to see the stuff he likes. if i go with him or vice versa, we will tend to find each other too slow then we'll start nagging. so the best way is, we see what we want to see.. of coz sometimes i do have moments when i really hope he would shop with me, then i'll let him noe lor.. so girls sldnt expect the guys to shop with thm most of the time as girls and guys 审美观 are simple diff most of the time.
anyway back to a novel that i hav just finished reading "P.S I Love You". I do not know what's the story in the movie like, mayb i sld finish the movie first before i give my comments.. but upon finishing the novel, alot of 感触. i do not think the novel is perfectly written as there are alot of scenarios where its qt illogical. but anyway, nice novel that send me tearing on qt a few pages.
My current thought:
"dear if you come back now, i promise i wouldnt' anyhow 发脾气, i wouldn't 无理取闹, i'll let you have your fri guys night out, i wouldnt' force you to drive to town if you don't want, i'll let you play your PS3 games while i'll just sit and watch, i wouldn't make you pay for all my expenses, i wouldn't hang up the phone on you anymore.. (well, if only you comes back NOW)[cross my finger]"
