As many would have know, i've been grumbling that i have not taken any mc since april. Finally yesterday, i was suffering from muscle ache due to sat vigorous vb playing and i also have abit of sore throat, so i went to see my company's doctor at 2pm.
According to the doctor diagnosis, a muscle ache with a sore throat with inflammation plus flu could be not a normal muscle (i.e. maybe is common cold). So, the kind doctor gave me mc for tuesday so that i can rest well at home (i didnt ask for it k), but since he already gave me tuesday i might as well ask for the rest of monday lor.. so i went home at 3+pm yest.
Acccompanied my mum to attend my cousin funeral just now. She's my father's sister child. The last time I saw her should be during my grandma's funeral which was 8years ago. However, i do not have any recollections, my last impression of her was during chinese new year way before 8yrs ago. Anyway, she suffered from brain tumour 7years ago and have since been a vegetarian after an operation for the past 7yrs. Not exactly vegetarian, as in she can not move, can only lie on the bed, but she is still conscious. she can communicate by opening and closing her eyes, that's all.
What's worse to my aunt's family is that 2years after my cousin incident, my aunt's husband suffered a stroke and has since been bedridden also. So, in that small 4 room flat in hougang, lives my aunt and her 2 children (all jobless to take care of the other two), my bedridden uncle and my vegetarian cousin. And my only 1 other cousin is working in Taiwan to support the whole family and the enormous medical fees.
So, everyone is saying it may be a blessing for her to go. Afterall, she has suffered long enough but she's only 35years old this year.
The rest of the family is quite worried about the elder sister. The one who had taken care of the deceased for 7 long years. She quit her job to take care of the sister, day and night. Now that she's gone, how would the elder sister live on?
I particularly do not like another aunt of mine. Her 2 sons have both graduated and earning gd $ now. she contributed $2k for this funeral. just now, she was 'boasting' about her contribution and another uncle of mine immediately shut her up by saying "if u meant to do something gd, u do not need to tell the whole world" Afterwhich, she starting boasting her sons' jobs. one of the son is working as auditor in big 4. I do not mind her boasting her son's career but at the expense of showing off, she humiliated my bro and my job.
E.g 1) she says that her son gets to travel round the world for his auditing job (and she lists at least 10 countries), then she goes on to say that her son only audit BIG companies and my bro only audit small companies so never travel outside Spore
E.g 2) she says my job has no prospect, in future come out cannot go anywhere or do anything and such a slack job would only made me 好吃懒做. that's it, she's really the limit
Then she went on to say how hard her life was in the past blah blah blah.. the worse is my dad went to borrow $ from this aunt without our knowing and now, the aunt came to tell my mum that her son lend the $ to my dad and ask my mum not to tell anyone.
hello, she can tell-off to my mum means she can tell the whole world about it lor.. i really duno what my dad is thinking, still need to borrow from someone else son... what a pathetic family
